Is it possible to be BI?

Base: Cafe Coming Out Forum
Date: Sat, 13 Jun 1998 17:42:51 GMT
From: Unknown (deep)

Is it possible to be BI? I'm 26 yrs old and for most of my life in practice I've been straight I've had several long-term relationships with women (and I'm in a serious one now) but since my adolesence I've also been attracted to guys. I've had very satisfying sex with women and I find that I am generally attracted to them. On the other hand I I invariably fantasize about guys when I masturbate. I simply view this as a manifestation of wanting to explore the other side of my sexuality. Admittedly, on a number of occasions I've been unable to perform with my girlfriend after extended day dreaming about sex with guys. Other times, sex with her is effortless and enjoyable. Given my fantasies about having sex with guys, am I really gay and in denial, or is it possible to live life maintaining two opposing (and perhaps complementary) sexual orientations? Is it really possible to be BI, or do I have to choose man or woman?

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