Easy to say...hard to do

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Date: Thu, 08 Feb 1996 22:00:54 GMT
From: Unknown (Firefox)

I know it's easy to give advice without having to deal the consequences...

I think the bottom line is, how much your wife and you respect each other and love each other. How well she can understand about you and vice versa? The thing is: 1. you must be true to yourself 2. you must have an honest relationship with your spouse

anything but honest (like fooling around secretly, etc) is going to do more harm to you and your marriage. You have to let you know that it's who you are, there's nothing wrong with her, and that you are not going to not Love her anymore or leave her for another man.

It's going to be tricky, but if your relationship is solid, and you explain this with respect, and do it right...you may find that you can have the best of both worlds. I have met a couple who's very open and comfortable about the husband's bisexuality. They've been married for 12 years now. So nothing is impossible.

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