Telling your wife.

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Re: Joining the pioneers (Unknown)
Re: Good question, but here is a tougher one!!! (Unknown)
Date: Tue, 02 Jan 1996 03:37:02 GMT
From: Unknown (charter)

Is probably one of the most difficult things. The answer has
to do with many things. The easiest being, what part of the
country are you in and what religion?

Next is, what does your wife know about gays? And have you
been a practicing gay while you've been married?

How old are the kids? How long have you been married?

One thing, you certainly don't want to sit at the dinner
table and say 'Pass the cheese, I'm gay, and some bread.'
You really need to get some idea of what sort of reaction(s)
are possible first.

A lot of the answer has to do with how strong she is personally.
Is she confident. Does she deal well with problems, adversity,
what have you? Basically, can she cope? 

1. Don't ask - Don't tell! (Unknown)

-> Guilt and my location on the continuum. (Unknown)

-> the continuum can be lime a pendalum (Unknown)